Sign up to swingers websites like Swinger Zone Central. This gives you the best access to swingers in your area by providing you access to profiles of swingers in your area, swingers groups, swinger meet and greets and swinger house parties. Still nothing going on in your area, swingers websites provide the perfect place for you to start and organize your own swingers club by creating your own swingers group, hosting swinger meet and greets or hostnig swinger house parties. You don't need a large group of swingers to have a good time. I used to live in a town of less than 1000 people and we found ways to meet other swingers. So get out there. Swingers are everywhere, but if you do not look you will not find them.

2. Choose the type of swingers club you would like to attend. Click the links below to learn more about the different types of swingers clubs.

3. Preparing to attend a swingers club includes many things that you might not think of until it is too late. In all cases, plan for the best case scenario.....having sex with someone else.

Is alcohol served at the club or is it BYOB? If it is BYOB, then do you need to bring your own mixers, ice and cups or are they provided. You don't want to be standing there with a bottle of vodka and no cranberry juice.
What is the donation/fee to attend? Cash is the typical payment type at a swingers club. This means you might need to stop at the ATM on your way to the club. If the club serves alcohol or is a bottle club, you will need money for drinks too.
Don't forget the condoms. Some clubs provide them, but they might not be the brand you are used to using. The last thing you need is to ruin your sexual fun by not having a condom or the wrong type of condom.
If you need lubricant, then bring it.
Do you need to bring your own towel (BYOT)?

Optional items you may consider bringing:

Shower products like shampoo, conditioner and body wash. Swingers clubs may provide this, but you can always bring your own.
Hair styling products if you plan to get wet in the pool. Most swingers are comfortable having the wet all over look(including their hair), but if you are not one of those swingers bring your hair stuff.
Extra change of clothes. Usually, sexy comfy clothes to lounge around in after sex.
Blanket and pillow
Snacks and something non-alcoholic to drink.

Of course, traveling light is always best. It is kind of embarrassing to leave your stuff behind at a swingers club. Don't worry if you have done it, you would not be the first. Some of the most embarrassing are wedding rings, other rings, necklaces, watches, glasses, clothing etc.
How does this happen?

You have to take off your clothes to get laid and you are usually so excited about the sex that you forget where you took them off and threw them. Most people remove certain items when having sex like their jewelry. For men, it is their watch. For women, it is their jewelry. So make sure when you leave the club, you have all your clothes and valuables.

4. Selecting a couple or single to swing with at a swingers club.

This is a tough one and requires stealth communication tactics between you and your partner. Things can happen fast at a swingers club. Swingers have reported they don't actually know how them ended up in the private or group room with another couple or couples. How could they not know?

Communication is happening all around you, except between you and your partner. This could be a problem.

It is easy for you and your partner to get separated as you mix and mingle. While separated, it is easy for you or your partner to become sexually excited about the new couple or single they met. Next thing you know, you or your partner are invited to a room to play. This can all be good if you and your partner both agree that you like the couple or single who invited you to a room to play.

What happens if you don't know what your partner is thinking? You need to know before you play that everything is cool and you don't want to make it a broadway production. You need to know find a way to communicate with your partner discretely.

It can be hard to figure out whether your partner is interested in a particular couple. It is not like you can talk openly with your partner about whether you want to swing with a couple because you are currently having a conversation with that couple. Think how rude it would be to say "she does nothing for me sexually" right in front of the woman or "he just does not turn me on, lets find another couple". Oh, there are some awkward moments at a swingers club. Lets face it, you don't want to have sex with everyone at the club. Well, maybe you do. So now you have to select- the couple or couples you want to swing with for the night and find a way to communicate this with your partner. Now is a good time to come up with a way to communicate DISCRETELY to your partner whether a couple you are talking to could be the one. The best one I have heard is the hand squeeze. As you hold hands, you squeeze once, twice or three times.
Example:
One squeeze - Yes, I like this couple
Two squeezes - Maybe
Three squeezes - No, lets keep looking

You decide what they mean, but I think you get the point.

Note: If you need to actually talk to your partner, then you can excuse yourselves to get a drink, something to eat or smoke. Note: This means that couple could move on and you might lose that opportunity for sexual fun with them that night as they could find someone else during that time. The other couple could read that as a blow off. It is a chance you take, but remember you go home with your partner and it is better to put your partner first. If that couple moves on, there will be other couples.

You and Swingers Clubs: Information on attending a swingers club

You and Swingers Clubs:
Information on attending a swingers club